Is This Abuse?

Insult you, embarrass you on purpose, or put you down?

Never
Sometimes
Often

Try to control your life and where you go?

Never
Sometimes
Often

Scare you with how they look at you or act towards you, your kids, your pets, your family, etc.?

Never
Sometimes
Often

Try to stop you from spending time with your family or friends?

Never
Sometimes
Often

Get physical with you in ways you don’t like, such as pushing, slapping, choking, or hitting?

Never
Sometimes
Often

Control all of your money? Do they refuse to give you any of their money or benefits?

Never
Sometimes
Often

Try to stop you from working or going to school?

Never
Sometimes
Often

Pressure you for sex or say that you owe them sex or threaten to cheat on you if you don’t have sex with them?

Never
Sometimes
Often

Act like their name calling, hitting, etc. is no big deal? For example, do they deny that their actions are hurtful or didn’t happen at all? Do they say that you caused them to do what they do?

Never
Sometimes
Often

Threaten you or scare you with weapons, or threaten to kill you, your pets, your children, or themself, especially when you say you want to leave or end the relationship?

Never
Sometimes
Often

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Risk Score

Does your partner: