Caution: Comparing any abuser's behavior to the list below might help victims realize if their safety is at risk. But, the presence or absence of any or all these factors is not a guarantee of lethality or safety. These risk factors are not ranked in any order. Trained domestic violence advocates are available in every county to discuss safety and options.
- Threats of homicide or suicide
- Previous physical assaults
- Access to firearms
- Strangulation during previous assaults
- Access to victims
- Public display of violence toward victim
- History of sexual violence
- Destruction of property
- Jealousy and possessiveness
- Controlling of victim's daily activities and contacts with others
- Drug or alcohol consumption
- Prior calls to police
- Pet abuse
- Lack of respect for the law
- Obsessed with partner or family
- Witnessed intimate partner abuse as a child
- Acute mental health problems
- Victim has children who are not the abuser's
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- When Men Murder Women: An Analysis of 2008 Homicide Data (Violence Policy Center, 2009)
- American Roulette: Murder-Suicide in the United States (Violence Policy Center)
- The Facts on Guns and Domestic Violence (Family Violence Prevention Fund)
- Facts on Firearms and Domestic Violence (Violence Policy Center)
- Fact Sheet: Firearms and Intimate Partner Violence (Bloomberg School of Public Health, Johns Hopkins University)